Is your spouse cheating or is there something else wrong?

 

CHEATING

 

Have you noticed suspicious behavior. Have you caught them in a lie? Perhaps they are acting strangely, or seem to be hiding something when you walk into a room?

 

Has your partner suddenly taken more pride in his/her appearance? Maybe they started exercising or buying a new wardrobe.

 

Are they having telephone conversations with an unknown person. Are you getting late night calls while you are sleeping or hang-ups when it's you that answers?

 

Do they run to the local store to buy an item only to return a few hours later without the item they went for?

 

Is he/she sneaking around and being secretive. Are things just not adding up?

 

Have you found receipts for gifts you’ve never received?

 

Has your spouse suddenly begun staying out all night?

 

Have they begun visiting friends more and more, spending more time with them than with you?

 

Has the ‘Working late at the office’ excuse begun to spring up more often?

 

Instinct. Nine times out of ten, if you have a gut feeling or suspicion about something, then it is most likely true.

 

 

 

DRUG ADDICTION

 

Abrupt changes in work or school attendance, quality of work, work output, grades, discipline.

 

Unusual flare-ups or outbreaks of temper.

 

Withdrawal from responsibility.

 

General changes in overall attitude.

 

Deterioration of physical appearance and grooming.

 

Wearing of sunglasses at inappropriate times.

 

Continual wearing of long-sleeved garments particularly in hot weather or reluctance to wear short sleeved attire when appropriate.

 

Association with known substance abusers.

 

Unusual borrowing of money from friends, co-workers or parents.

 

Stealing small items from employer, home or school.

 

Secretive behavior regarding actions and possessions; poorly concealed attempts to avoid attention and suspicion such as frequent trips to storage rooms, restroom, basement, etc.

 

 

 

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